Things are a bit confusing at the moment.
DW had very distinct pregnancy symptoms: nausea, uterine twinges, fatigue/dizziness, and then we tested yesterday morning and it was definitely positive:
Then she started having brown spotting, that became more and more in volume.
And since yesterday morning, the nausea and all other symptoms have disappeared, but mild cramps have started.
Yesterday was supposed to be our beta day, but the clinic screwed up and told us it was supposed to be Saturday. They called her yesterday when her bleeding was becoming slightly red, and scolded her for not coming in for her blood test.
Imagine how conflicted she is feeling right now.
Even though we could have her beta today, DW would like to wait until Saturday, when the status is more clear.
I’m trying to stay hopeful, but I can tell that in her gut, DW is preparing herself for an emotional breakdown, and is just trying to make it through the work week intact.
I don’t know how to feel right now, but I’m choosing my words very carefully, and letting her lead.
Mama et Maman 
Oh dear. I sure hope things are better than it looks! ((HUGS)) to both of you!
Sending positive thoughts to you both, I hope you get good news on Saturday
I’m really hoping the spotting is nothing to worry about. I have heard, anecdotally, that common is more spotting with FETs, so I’m really hoping that’s it. Sending you so much good, positive goodness.
Sending all the good thoughts and prayers I possibly can!
Thank you 🙂
I’m sorry. I hope it’s not what she’s thinking.
I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you guys that the spotting is nothing.
Sending you good thoughts.
I’m thinking about you and your wife and sending you the best. Thanks for the update.