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FET#4: 10DP5DT or 15DPO: Results




I thought that some nice pictures of the dogs might ease you all into bad news.

We just got the call from the clinic.


We are devastated, but not surprised. I guess the Dollarama pregnancy tests were more correct than that stupid Clearblue Easy Plus.

I’m supposed to stop all my meds, aside from my thyroxine, and AF should arrive within 2-5 days.

I feel like I need a vacation. Take me away from this cold, terrible place.

Never did I ever think that we would blow through all seven blastocysts and be worse off than before we started. Some believe that there is a lesson in each failed IVF cycle. What have we learned?

– DW can’t hold a pregnancy past the first week
– I can’t hold a pregnancy to heartbeat viability

The reasons for DW’s failed attempts are unknown, and my diagnosis is weak at best.

Where do we go from here?

53 thoughts on “FET#4: 10DP5DT or 15DPO: Results

    • Thanks. With teachers possibly going on strike in the next couple of months, we need to tighten up our finances a bit… Which means no vacation. But having time with DW will be nice.

    • Thank you. Unfortunately, the vacation may have to wait until March break, as our union is likely to strike in January/February. We’re also thinking of doing another IVF, which will be costly.

  1. I’m sorry. I’ve been hoping I would suddenly see a good news post from you soon. I’m sure you would have loved nothing more than to be able to post one too. Thinking of you both.

  2. Oh feck this sucks and I am so sorry for the loss of your latest embryos and your hopes that this time might be the one. This hideous ‘journey’ just doesn’t get any easier does it? Sending you much love. X

  3. Oh, no. This is achingly devastating. I echo what everyone else says: there aren’t the proper words in the English language to properly express how I feel for you. “I’m sorry” sounds so cheap. Just know I hold you in my thoughts often, and I am deeply sorry for what you’ve been living through.

  4. I am so sorry. You and DW are such special parents who deserve a baby so much. You’ve always been an inspiration to me. I can only imagine how hopeless and awful this must feel. You are in my thoughts, and if you need to talk you know where to find me.

  5. I am so sorry. I havent been by in a while and this is not what i was expecting to read. No words can ease your pain so ill just wish for a better year for you next year.

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